Love can not be defined for it means something different to each soul. A lover need not speak of how much or in what way they love their split apart for their split apart has but to look in their eyes and see.The heart is just an organ it does not love. Your soul and essence is what loves. Your spirit is what truly sees. Love is not about need but more about choice and desire. I can breath without you but I would much rather breath with you. I can make up my mind on my own but I desire your opinion more than anything. I can stand on my own two feet but would you care to stand next to me and hold my hand? Share this light with me? Be the kindle to my fire and I shall be your's. I don't see love being about need at all.